Whose fault is this? I have overcome my wife being in touch with her ex which had happened 4 years ago,?

however she keeps on making him relevant by lying that she is not in contact with him but actually contacting him. I found out that she aactually met with him but lied to me that she is not in contact with him. When I bring up the issue, she accuses me of not letting her initial contact with him which was four years ago, go.?